The road to hell is paved with good intentions
Imagine a sport that you have no desire to do, perhaps scuba-diving or running marathons or playing badminton.
Are you imagining it? Now imagine what it would be like to have some well-meaning person constantly suggesting that you take up the sport, because "it'd be really fun if you just did it", even though you have no desire to ever do it.
Get the picture? So asking for 'help' to convince her to ride again is not helping her at all.
If you really love her, starting thinking about what she wants instead of what you want for a change.
Imagine a sport that you have no desire to do, perhaps scuba-diving or running marathons or playing badminton.
Are you imagining it? Now imagine what it would be like to have some well-meaning person constantly suggesting that you take up the sport, because "it'd be really fun if you just did it", even though you have no desire to ever do it.
Get the picture? So asking for 'help' to convince her to ride again is not helping her at all.
If you really love her, starting thinking about what she wants instead of what you want for a change.
